How to Be a Good Girlfriend
While it is very easy to get into a relationship,
maintaining it is a difficult task. The whole concept of boyfriend and
girlfriend is exciting but there are a number of things one should keep
in mind before entering into such bonding. Wondering how to be a good
girlfriend? Well, it's a simple. You just need to know what your
boyfriend wants and give him that without compromising on your
integrity. Do not be too possessive so that he feels caged and neither
give him so much space that he feels ignored and unloved. The key
characteristic of a good girlfriend is to have a balance in the
relationship. In the following lines, we provide you tips on how to be a
How To Be A Good Girlfriend
- It is very important to give time to your relationship. Do not
rush through it. Enjoy the initial phases without worrying about the
future. It is often noted that girls get too anxious about the end
of the relationship rather than enjoying the present.
- Give him space. It is often noted that girls complain about less
time been given, less attention, etc. do not be obsessive and let
him enjoy his life. At the end of the day you are two individuals
who meet up to form a couple. So, give him some room to move about
like a free bird.
- Be candid and honest right from the beginning. This would give
you an added impetus and make your relationship strong. Also, by
being sincere, you do not give a chance of any lose ends for your
partner to point out.
- Be optimistic and have a positive outlook. If you always indulge
yourself in cribbing and having a pessimistic nature, he would
rather run away from you and look for ways to avoid you. Be tactful
in your approach and both of you would end up being happy.
- Voice your opinion, needs, desires and wants but in a way that
does not hurt the other person or sound demanding. Let your feelings
be known to him but in such a way that would keep him interested in
getting to know and understand you as a person every time.
- Have realistic expectations from him. Do not go out of the way
demanding things which might be too much of a burden and a duty to
him rather than an act of love. Be happy with what he offers you
because this is the best he can do for you.
- If your boyfriend does not like some of your friends, it is okay.
He has loved you and not your friends and is even not obliged to do
so. All he needs to do is to be polite when he meets them. So do not
yell at them when for not liking them.
- Have mutual interest. If he loves doing something, adopt to his
likes and interests. In case, you are not fond of what his hobbies,
you can at least try to understand what is so special in it that
makes him such a huge fan.
- It is a wrong notion that only girls love gifts. Guys too love it
equally well. Surprise him with a little gift every now and then and
he would be surely be overwhelmed. You can also go for a handmade
gift that would make him feel all the more special.