How To Be A Good Boyfriend
Love is bliss which everyone would want to
experience. While there are guys who crib because they do not have a
girlfriend, the others moan on having one. It might look all that simple
to commit to a relationship but to maintain it requires a lot of effort
and most importantly the will. The signs of a good boyfriend are that he
should be willing to make sacrifices for the woman he is in love with.
He should make all efforts to make his girlfriend happy and pleased.
Wondering whether you fit into the category of being a good boyfriend?
Read on to find some tips on how to be a good boyfriend.
How To Be A Good Boyfriend
- Be true to your girlfriend. The base of any relationship is
dependant on how honest you are to each other. It also builds up the
respect for each other. However, be tactful when situation demands.
At times, the reality is not well accepted by the girl when it comes
to dressing sense, looks, style, etc. On such occasions tell them in
a way that does not sound derogatory to them and conveys your
message as well.
- Most of the girls suffer from inferiority complex. Do not let
this feeling overpower your girlfriend. Let her play an important
role in all the decisions you take in life which is meant for both
of you. If not, be prepared for the emotional game as girls often
resort to this when they are ignored or not heard.
- Communication is very necessary for any relationship to survive.
Talk to her and let her know about what you feel, what are your
aspirations, what she felt about a particular thing which happened,
etc. give them the vibes that she can confide in you everything and
would not have to worry about it.
- Girls love to be pampered and when it comes to boyfriends they
want it all the time. Pamper her with gifts, soft toys, dinner,
flowers, cards, CD, books, etc. You do not have to get expensive
items each time. Girls get impressed with even the simplest of all
things like a single rose or a small key ring. So make efforts to
make her feel special and loved.
- Romance holds the key for your relationship. If you are romantic,
sweet and thoughtful, your relationship would never suffer. Gesture
speaks volumes about what you feel for the person. Compliment her,
leave her a romantic note, call her unexpectedly just to say those
three golden words. Even if both of you have been together for a
long time, you need to make efforts to keep the romance alive.
- Be interested in her interests. Girls love to talk and want
someone to listen to them with a patient ear. It is noted that
mostly guys do not take interest which usually leads to fights and
tiffs. Show interest in what they say. Do not just blankly listen
but be an active participant in the talks. Make them feel that
something which is important to them is also important to you.
- Do not be clingy and give her space. Being in a relationship does
not mean that she has no personal desires. Let her be a free bird
and move about freely.