Most of us, at some point of time or another, have
found it difficult to decipher whether or not the other gorgeous-looking
person in your office or college nurtures the same mushy-mushy feelings
towards you as you do for him /her. And in most cases, this vacillation
resulted in that person's slipping out of one's ambit or being lapped up
by someone else more instinctive or gutsy.
In order to keep this from happening to you again, read this article
themed on courting body language. It talks about simple body postures
/gestures that indicate whether or not a person is romantically
interested in you. Reading this article should also make asking him /
her out on a date easier for you!
Moving Nearer
Whether or not a person is interested in you romantically can be
understood by how much intensely he /she is located near you. This is a
simple and easy way of reading the body language of a person you are
courting or want to court. For example if a person is standing afar and
comes much closer upon seeing you, then he / she probably nurtures
romantic feelings for you. The opposite is true if the person, who is
the target of your attentions, moves away from you.
Making Eye Contact
The biggest communicator of romantic feeling is the eyes. If you are
romantically inclined towards a person, you will instinctively want to
make direct eye-contact with him /her. And if that person too looks at
you in the same manner, then consider your lovey-dovey feelings being
reciprocated. Is this not the easiest way of interpreting body language
of a person you are courting or wish to woo?
Touching
When you are enticed by a thing, it is a normal human tendency to get
closer to it or even touch. So if a person nurtures romantic feelings
towards you, then that person will rest an arm on your shoulder or hold
your waist casually. These touches could be intentional or totally
reflexive. In this, it is the vibes of the persons involved that signals
whether there is any romantic feeling or not between the two persons.
Position of Feet
The position of the feet can also prove to be a great signal in order
to understanding the romantic body language of a person while courting
or one you wish to ask out on a date. Just remember the saying, 'where
the feet goes, heart follows'. Normally it is the lower body parts that
are under least control every time a person is excited. So if he
stretches to move his feet move towards you while seated at a table,
then read it as a 'come-hither' sign.
